3. Let’s Not Destroy Intimacy

The porn industry has the potential to negatively impact how society views the concept of intimacy in romantic relationships. The following information is provided in order to showcase examples of these effects at work.

Working in the industry tends to result in negative effects on one’s mental state, which can impact psychological development, especially regarding personal views on intimacy and sex. As a result, most involved in the industry tend to have difficulty with finding ideal romantic partners, difficulties with comprehending genuine feelings of intimacy (due to to constantly engaging with strangers in their line of work), along with general feelings of sexual dissatisfaction with their partners12.

Those who watch porn while in a relationship are more likely to have poor communication skills with their partner, more likely to have negative views on love, and are ultimately hurting their partner in the process. Because of the fact that pornography teaches unrealistic expectations about sex, most men who consume it will then place these expectations on their partners. If their partners are unable to meet those expectations, then they resort to prostitutes15.
In cases where one person in a relationship regularly watches porn, it’s often reported by the other partner that they feel as though they are always competing with whoever’s behind the screen. Given that pornographic content also promotes severely warped perceptions regarding sex, intimacy, beauty standards, and more, this frustration is certainly understandable. 

Pornography also tends to show a more “one-sided” view when it comes to sex, often portraying the idea that the needs of the more dominate partner (primarily a man) in the relationship should be more of a priority16. Those who are reasonable would agree in saying that sex is not merely one-sided, but that the needs of both people in the relationship should be addressed. 

Online pornography also has also been found to have considerably negative effects on the integrity of marriages. In more recent studies, it’s been found that in 56% of all divorces, pornography addiction was discovered as one of the main causes of instability in the relationship9.
Additionally, in such cases where a spouse regularly consumes such content, 75% of the time it’s uncovered by accident - meaning that most spouses (notably husbands) are actively hiding their addiction from their partners9